girl, why you be so ugly?

[liminal_space]

i don't quite get why people online (especially on here — this place is all about good vibes, man) feel the need to send long-winded shitty messages to people to try and make them feel bad. like, seriously, are you so insecure in your own existence that you have to lash out at someone else and make a conscious effort to demean, degrade, and beat down? that was a rhetorical question because, obvs, you are. 

any woman who throws shit down on another woman about her looks, her weight, or her mental well-being is a crusty shit stain on the worst granny panties society has to offer. 

any woman who does that should be ashamed of herself. and if she proudly puffs her chest out and indignantly and proudly assures us she is not ashamed? DOUBLE crusty shit stain. *nod*

jfc, learn to shut your mouth, yo...and stop being a dusty bitch. 

[didn't happen to me...at least today. just an slightly pissed-off ennui-laden observation based on something someone else went through.]

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now that i have that out of my system....

— we do NOT have movers because of nonsense and mayhem and dumbshittery and exorbitant prices. we do, however, have pods coming. tomorrow. o.O we're going to hire local, strong-man types to get the really weird and awkward stuff from upstairs to down, but other than that, mister will be loading boxes and i'll be helping with the other stuff. 

— the part of this that's making me cringe is that our stuff won't be arriving until about a week after we get out there. o.O PLUS...the stuff won't be delivered to new place...it's going to a storage facility 40 minutes 

— i accidentally made a modified version of chilaquiles this morning with flour tortillas. i was going for something....different....but whatever the eff i did was delicious. mister also liked it, so i may try to reconstruct it at a later date with better salsa and chorizo, potatoes, and eggs instead of taco meat and eggs. did i do fusion cuisine this morning? WHO KNOWS?

— the mls bullshit caused the value of our house to go down about $30K. *shrug* whatcha gonna do? it will all be ok. :) the real estate agent is telling us to take out the window ACs because they don't look that great (they never do) and i'm fighting that one: it's still fucking hot. we'll figure it out....there's nothing to do BUT figure it out. 

— so. yeah. hi. 

Comments

[debris4spike]

I think that is one of the reasons I enjoy blogging. I was bullied for 9 years at school and I find that it is hard to get friends with people in RL .. so if anyone has ever started anything then I block them.

But, as you say, why? I suppose they feel they need power over others ... but why? And even now, 45 years on I still don't know why one person tried making my life a living hell while I was at school.

And, now sorry I have ended up ranting at someone, rather than just agreeing that people should shut up. As my parents would say "If you haven't anything nice to say, then don't say anything"!

[deepseasiren.livejournal.com]

I was bullied in junior high school relentlessly so I totally get it. But at the same time, if someone attacks me first, I'm not going to take it lying down either. It's true that the wiser thing is to walk away sometimes, but for me, I simply don't do that.

[debris4spike]

*hugs*

Sadly I can "walk away" before I even speak to someone ... my self-protection is still in over-use!

[deepseasiren.livejournal.com]

I also understand that. My protection comes in the form of trusting very few people.

[liminal-space.livejournal.com]

some of the bullies i've seen in school come from backgrounds/homes that would make you cry they're so terrible. (others are just plain assholes). it's no excuse, but in kids it seems like they want to lash out to try and get rid of the pain. :( if only real life were like that, right? like "YOU SUCK, I'M BLOCKING YOU!~"